The Luxury of Being Fully Seen: Why Queer Women Travelers Need More Than Fancy Hotels

Sol Journey Travel
Jul 5
2 min read

When Luxury Travel Isn’t Just About the Hotel

When you picture luxury travel, what comes to mind?

For most people, it’s 5-star hotels, rooftop infinity pools, spa treatments, and high-thread-count sheets. And let's be real, that's amazing yes however, for many queer women, luxury is something deeper. It’s not just about where you go or what you do—it’s about how you feel while you’re doing it.

Because true luxury isn’t always marble and mimosas. Sometimes, it’s feeling seen, safe, and celebrated.

The Hidden Cost of Travel for Queer Women

Here’s something a lot of travel brands don’t talk about:

Even the most beautiful resort can feel uncomfortable if you have to shrink yourself to fit in.

Whether it’s awkward check-in desk moments (“This is my wife, actually”), unsolicited questions, or wondering if it's okay to hold hands in public—these micro-moments steal from the joy you're supposed to be experiencing. And you know what? You shouldn’t have to filter your identity to enjoy a vacation.

hammock on balcony with volcano view in the background — Tabacon Thermal Resort & Spa, Costa Rica

What True LGBTQ+ Luxury Travel Feels Like

At Sol Journey Travel, I design upscale, affirming travel experiences for queer women and couples who want more than just a pretty place—they want to feel at ease, empowered, and fully themselves.

Because luxury isn’t just the villa, it's the vibe.

It’s:

Being welcomed, not side-eyed.
Staying at properties where staff are trained in inclusivity.
Curated excursions that balance relaxation and adventure—no code-switching required.
Knowing someone has already vetted your itinerary through the lens of identity and safety.

This is the kind of intentional LGBTQ+ travel planning that truly sets the experience apart.

woman exploring a temple in Bangkok — Bangkok, Thailand

How I Redefine Luxury for My Clients

I work with curious travelers, especially queer women, who want:

Elevated experiences that feel both indulgent and meaningful
Destinations that are LGBTQ+ friendly and welcoming
A mix of adventure (hello, zipline or safari) and relaxation (spa days, wine tastings, beach lounging)
Peace of mind that every detail has been thought through, especially the ones others overlook

It’s not about splurging for the sake of it—it’s about investing in a trip that allows you to be who you are and with who you love from start to finish.

Why Inclusive Travel Planning Matters

You shouldn’t have to research for hours to find LGBTQ+ welcoming resorts.

You shouldn’t have to “read between the lines” of hotel reviews.

You definitely shouldn’t have to second-guess your safety or comfort.

That’s what I’m here for.

As an inclusive travel advisor who specializes in LGBTQ+ luxury travel, I take the guesswork out of planning and replace it with trust, joy, and ease.

Let’s Create Your Next Unforgettable Journey

Whether you're planning a honeymoon, a milestone birthday trip, or just need a reset somewhere beautiful, I’m here to co-create something incredible—without the stress, worry, or “will they get us?” feeling.

The real luxury? Being fully seen and celebrated, every step of the way.